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    Cleft Palate Versus Cleft Lip

    When I tell people that my daughter Josephine was born with a cleft palate, many of them respond by saying something along the lines of,  “Wow, really??? You can’t even tell!”  This is because, when people hear the word “cleft,” they automatically think of cleft lip. But a cleft palate is something totally different (though the two often occur together).  Don’t feel bad if you’ve made the same mistake. It’s totally understandable! I don’t think many people even know what a cleft palate is. So I wanted to write this post to break it down for you! Cleft Lip A cleft lip is a gap in the upper lip. According…

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    A Complete Timeline of Jaw Distraction: Josie’s Journey, Part 2

    Some links may be affiliate links. I may get paid if you buy something or take an action after clicking one of these. It’s time to talk about jaw distraction! My daughter Josephine was born with Pierre Robin Sequence, or PRS. (You can read my brief explanation of Pierre Robin Sequence in my blog post What Is Pierre Robin Sequence? Josie’s Journey, Part 1.) When I was first told that Josie had PRS, I had a mile-long list of questions and worries. And of course the question at the top of my list was, how do we fix it? The answer, in Josie’s case, was mandibular (jaw) distraction. What Is…

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    Cleft Palate Repair Recovery Tips

    Some links may be affiliate links. I may get paid if you buy something or take an action after clicking one of these. Before Josie’s palate repair surgery, I was bracing myself for a few miserable, sleepless weeks of recovery. But luckily, Josie bounced back in no time. Palate repair recovery was definitely still a difficult and exhausting process, but it wasn’t as terrible as I had expected, and it was so worth it in the end. A lot of people have questions about recovery and what to expect, so I wanted to detail the steps I took to ensure that everything went as smoothly as possible. Hopefully it will…

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    Cleft Palate Sippy Cup Transition: How To Ditch The Bottle Before Palate Repair

    Some links may be affiliate links. I may get paid if you buy something or take an action after clicking one of these. For a baby with a cleft palate, one of the most important steps in preparing for palate repair surgery is eliminating the bottle and transitioning to a sippy cup! Josie had to be able to drink all of her liquids from a cup (no bottle!) by the time surgery came around. This is because drinking from the bottle nipple could potentially damage the surgery site (the roof of her mouth).  Since she left the NICU, Josie had been drinking her milk from the Dr. Brown’s specialty feeding…

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    Josie’s First Birthday Party and Cleft Palate Repair Surgery

    October was a BIG month for our family. We threw Josie’s first birthday party at our house at the beginning of the month, then a few days later she had palate repair surgery to close the cleft in her palate. We had been anxiously anticipating these two events for literally an entire year. It was completely exhausting, but we are so happy that we have come this far. Birthday time! The first thing we tackled was Josie’s birthday party. It was a big success in my book. Everything turned out just the way I hoped it would, and so many of our favorite people gathered together to celebrate Josie’s first…